I grew up on what would be classed as a 'tough' Southeast London council estate. Where physical fighting was a way of emotional expression and communication. I witnessed and personally experienced emotional and physical abuse. I found sanctuary in creative hobbies.
Academically, I had my limitations, leaving school with minimal qualifications.
Guided by my mother's strong work ethic, I entered the world of retail at age of 16. I worked in retail as a cashier, it was there that I discovered visual merchandising. I applied for a job as a window dresser, dressing mannequins.
Then discovered I could dress/style real people.
Through sheer determination, knocking on every opportunity's door and saying "yes" to each challenge. I carved a successful career as a fashion stylist, traveling the world and living my creative dream. But unexpectedly, my past traumas caught up with me in the form of panic attacks.
My thriving career came to an abrupt halt as I grappled with fear in crowds, confined spaces, and travel. Fortunately, I was introduced to a wonderful therapist who during our conversations I mentioned as a teenager I was interested in psychology.
Although my limiting belief about academic inadequacy had long stifled this aspiration.
Nonetheless, her inquiry ignited a spark of hope within me. I embarked on a journey, enrolling in an introductory course. It was here that my tutor noticed something profound - had I ever been screened for dyslexia? The results were unequivocal, revealing my dyslexic identity - There is a strong correlation between childhood trauma and dyslexia.
In that moment, my mindset shifted. I resolved to take action.
Once again, my occupation isn't just a job; it's my passion. My creative identity, honed through years as a fashion stylist, now gives me a distinct advantage as a therapist and coach. I personalise my packages, to suit each individual, consistently delivering results that surpass expectations.
No matter the obstacles you face, together, we can work towards making your dreams a reality. My journey, from challenges to a fulfilling present, is a testament to the power of resilience. I'm here to guide you on your own transformative path, humbly sharing what I've learned along the way.
I guide others to break through their own challenges. Ready for a transformative journey to a future brimming with possibilities?
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